Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Let's talk about money.

Ok, we've gone over the purpose of my blog. I want women everywhere to feel fine with who they are, and comfortable in their own skin. So, I'm going to talk about a hotly debated topic... women and money. Guys, you'll get the dirt. Girls, you'll realize you're not alone. 

Women love money, there's no disputing that. Men love it as well. The difference is, men have to work for it. Guys, I don't make the rules here, I just interpret my observation of it. If you're a beautiful woman, you don't have to work a day in your life. Working is for men, and the ugly. 

Women of all types, shapes and sizes want a guy with money. You can put a gun to our heads and we'll never admit it, because we don't want to be called a whore. But in the end guys, we generally choose the man with the most money as our final destination. 

We'll sleep with poor guys all day long in our younger years. We go through these silly phases where we think we can fix the badboy, or we find a guy who is really hot, but kind of white trash, or poor. This guy has no car, no money, and no future. We'll screw him blind if he wants, because for most women he's the best lay they've ever had. 

If you think for one second that some tattooed rebel guy in a band isn't better in bed then some boring accountant, you're only fooling yourself. 

Once we get through this phase, we start planting the seeds for our future. While the guitar player who sleeps on our couch all day can rock our world in bed, he's never going to get you a beautiful house in the suburbs and a new car every couple of years. But as I said, he's awesome in bed, and a thrill to be around. I've talked with housewives who have honestly told me they fantasize about their former badboys daily, because their financial analyst husband will never compare. 

In the end, guys must know this. The broke joke guy has to know he's just renting her.  Maybe that's why they are so fun. It's all temporary, and in the back of their minds they both know it. 

But here is the point of my post. Men, you need to realize that women are driven by money. If you have thoughts of long term relationships, marriage or children, the amount of money you make will determine the quality of wife you have, and that's a fact. When is the last time you saw a stunning, gorgeous older woman getting out of a beat up volkswagen at the supermarket? It just doesn't happen. When it comes down to choosing the end guy, money trumps all. Either money you have, or potential money. You can be cuter, funnier, and even better in bed. But the numbers make the final decision. 

If you really want to get the girl of your dreams, you need to do all you can to become financially successful. 

What woman doesn't want all the fun that comes with money? Nice houses, cars, vacations, ATVs, boats, the list goes on and on. The hotter we are, the more of that we're going to enjoy. It's just how it is. And ladies, embrace this as part of the system. You're not a whore, you're just an average girl like the rest of us. Hit the gym, get your hair done, and keep mr right in your sights!